Christian Living, Sufferings and Pain

The beauty and purpose of pain in Christian life

A certain memory was triggered when one of my triplets came back from school in tears recently (I mention the reason below). There is a question that a lot of people like to ask, “Why does a good God allow pain and suffering to His people?” Have you ever wondered if there is any beauty and purpose in pain in Christian life?

 

Let me share a true story with you in my post today. When I was around 14 years old, my family and I, took a mission road trip back in India. That trip will always remain to be one of my fondest memories because I learned valuable lessons as a young girl that would shape me later in life.

 

We had stopped to rest at a missionary’s home one Saturday morning  so that we could worship the Lord the next day with the saints over there. I remember looking around that Sunday morning to take a glance at the people in the Church who were walking in before the worship began.

 

Leprosy and Purpose of pain

I noticed a group of people were sitting on one side and their faces and hands were disfigured. I later came to know there were believers who had leprosy. Wonderful believers singing and praising the Savior together.

 

Leprosy is an infectious disease and people who have contacted them suffer because they are stigmatized a lot. But what caught my attention was that this disease robs you from feeling pain due to nerve damage. THAT SHOULD BE A GREAT NEWS, RIGHT?

 

But if a patient with leprosy cannot perceive pain then they cannot take any measure to prevent future injuries or damages. They may lose their fingers, or toes and never feel it.

 

Do you now see your pain as a gift or a curse?For a leper, the best gift would be the gift of experiencing pain.

 

The definition of pain, “It is an unpleasant feeling that is conveyed to the brain by sensory neurons”

 

If you ask me, I don’t want to feel pain because it is unbearable. It took me close to two decades to heal from my childhood trauma. The sting of betrayals, rejections, abuse, brokenness, sicknesses, and violence are too much to handle on this earth.

 

 

 

 

Here are 4 incredible reasons behind the beauty and purpose of pain in Christian life

 

 

1. PAIN tells us to pay attention

Imagine losing a hand or another body part and never feeling pain?

  • Have you been living with the guilt of sin and a broken heart?
  • Have you ignored your symptoms of pain?

Pain is our best teacher and points to us the areas we need to act and find our way back to our pain-reliever (GOD)

 

Psalm 69:29 I am suffering and in pain. Rescue me, O God, by your saving power.

Man, who is born of woman, Is short-lived and full of turmoil. Job 14:1 NASB

May your heartaches pull you closer to the ONE who carried your sorrows on that cruel Cross.

 

 

 

2. PAIN reminds us touch the hem of our Savior.

 

The purpose of pain in Christian life be it body aches, heartaches, and broken soul must remind us to make an appointment with our Greatest Physician.

 

Just like you would NEVER ignore a lump, a greenish blue bruise all over your body, a fracture, or a concussion, we must never forget to reach out to touch our Savior’s hem.

 

Christ Himself wept out aloud on the Cross saying “Eli Eli lama sabachthani” – My GOD, my God , why have you forsaken me” in the Gospels.

 

The Son of God cried and reached out to HIS Father in His darkest hour of deep anguish.

 

Jesus Christ partakes with us in our hour of pain and suffering and there will come a day when HE will wipe our tears and take us to a place where there will be no more pain.

 

“A teardrop on earth summons the King of heaven.” Chuck Swindoll

Psalm 20:1 May the LORD answer you in the day of trouble; may the name of the God of Jacob protect you.

 


 

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3. PAIN teaches us to be compassionate

 

My 5-year-old came running to me in tears after school today and said,” My classmate said he doesn’t like me, so he won’t play with me”. I wanted to erase my little boy’s pain, but this mama knows she cannot protect him all the time. Their stay in the NICU after being born at 26 weeks taught me that as well.

I used that moment to wipe his tears, hug him, and teach him valuable advice that will keep him going in life.

 

–Best of the best friends will suddenly block us and stop talking to us.

–Bosses who once praised our work ethic will decide to lay us off.

–Parents will suddenly choose to turn their backs in our time of need.

 

“The sympathy of Jesus is the next most precious thing to his sacrifice.” Charles Spurgeon

 

A nameless Jericho man was brutally beaten and robbed of his clothes plus valuables on his way. He was even ignored by the priest and the Levi. This Jericho man’s painful story is our story as well.

How many times we have been also robbed of our joy by the evil surrounding us? But our stories don’t end in pain. Here is the beauty and purpose of pain, my friend.

Suddenly the good Samaritan stops, steps down, cleans our deep wounds and carries us on HIS broad shoulder. God sends compassionate people into our lives and uses us to be a kind Samaritan to others in their pain.

 

 

 

4. PAIN strengthens our faith and has an expiration date.

 

Psalm 119:71 It is good for me that I have been afflicted, that I might learn thy statues.

Did you know that this great man of God, Charles Spurgeon struggled with a lifelong battle with depression and severe pain? His quotes says it all ” When you go through a trial,the sovereignty of God is the pillow upon which you lay your heart.”

Job suffered the loss of his health, wealth, and precious children. Friends and even his own life wanted Job give up on his faith. Yet he chose to say, “Though He slay me, yet will I trust Him” (Job 13:15). Job knew that His Redeemer lives and can restore double of whatever he lost.

Great men and women of God like Abraham, Daniel, Job, Paul, Ruth, Elizabeth, and Hannah walked closer with God amidst their pain.

Christ’s pain on that cruel cross led to the salvation of mankind.

God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pains: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world. C. S.Lewis

Pain and suffering on this earth is inevitable but there is an end for misery and brokenness for a Christian (Read Revelation 21:4) No other religions can promise such a thing.


 

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These verses have comforted me to understand the purpose of pain as a Christian woman:

 

A ) James 1: 2-3 NIV Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.

 

 

B) Romans 8:17,18 Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ, if indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.

I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.

 

C) Revelation 21:4 He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”

 

D) 2 Corinthians 1:3-5 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,

who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God;

For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.

 

E) John 16:22 So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.

 

REFLECTION:

Pain simply means you are alive in Christ and that your sufferings will be your greatest ministry.

How do you see the purpose of pain in Christian life?

So, my friend, how did this post comfort you? Won’t you share this with someone who is struggling to understand the purpose of pain ? I would love to hear back from you, drop a comment below 🙂

 

Until we meet again

Diana

 

Purpose of pain -thorn filled life

17 Comments

  1. Yvonne Chase

    September 30, 2019 at 8:52 am

    Pain, as part of our Christian walk, is not something that’s talked about often. Thanks for the needed reminder that pain is indeed a part of that journey and that our loving Savior Jesus Christ promises to never leave us or forsake us no matter what. I like the first point that says pain lets us know something is wrong and directs us to the ultimate pain reliever; God. Amen!

    1. Diana

      September 30, 2019 at 9:14 am

      Amen !!! Just this morning I had some neck pain and the first thing I did was take Tylenol- pain reliever 🙂 For our heartaches we can boldly go to our Heavenly pain reliever . I count your visit ,Yvonne as a blessing

  2. Beth

    September 30, 2019 at 10:35 am

    Such a great perspective shifting post, Diana! Suffering truly can be used to refine us into our Savior’s image. That’s what I want each trial and injustice to do in my life! I hope your little guy is able to be compassionate and learn many lessons from this painful moment in his life. You’re a wise mama to use it to teach him how to respond like Christ! Pinned and tweeted!

  3. Jana

    September 30, 2019 at 1:14 pm

    “Pain has an expiration date.” What an encouragement! Pain and suffering are tools that drive us closer to Jesus. My faith is stronger because of them. I have learned who God is because of them – it is a knowledge much deeper than mental facts. It is an intimate knowledge gleaned through experience. I’m grateful for my suffering because of the resulting riches of God’s grace.

  4. Anita Ojeda

    September 30, 2019 at 3:07 pm

    Amen! Pain has a purpose–to bring our attention to something that is wrong. And God never wastes our pain.

  5. Rebecca Hastings

    October 2, 2019 at 9:21 am

    Oh, how we can all relate to pain in our lives. It can feel so lonely and make me think I’m doing something wrong because it seems like life should be pain free. But God never promised that. He promised His presence and hope. He promised He’d never leave us in our pain and that He’ll work it for His good. Thank you for reminding me that pain can be a blessing. I especially loved this: “PAIN reminds us touch the hem of our Savior.”

  6. Kristi Woods

    October 2, 2019 at 10:41 am

    Excellent post, Diana. I’ll admit, I’m not a fan of pain–at all, but there’s purpose in virtually all things when we consider Jesus and eternity. This reminds me of Corrie ten Boom and the fleas in the concentration camp. Have you read The Hiding Place? I don’t want to spoil it, so I’ll leave it there, but it’s a goodie.
    Loved this one so much, I pinned it.

  7. danell Steffen

    October 2, 2019 at 11:48 am

    Diana I really loved this post. I have been walking with several friends that are dealing with pain lately, I will definitely share it with them.

    1. Diana

      October 2, 2019 at 2:33 pm

      Thank you Danell for sharing this to your friends 🙂 You are a keeper for them to have such a great friend like you.

  8. Desiree Taylor

    October 2, 2019 at 12:32 pm

    I pray my mind can be transformed to look at pain this way. I love your points here. I will be sharing this.

  9. Rebecca Jones

    October 2, 2019 at 2:40 pm

    It is so important to recognize the pain Jesus bore for us, why we can give ours to Him. Thanks, Diana.

  10. Horace Williams Jr

    October 3, 2019 at 2:59 pm

    Diana, I cannot tell you how pleased I am to be next to you in Crystal’s link-up. Having the opportunity to read your entire post on pain is fantastic. (I read an excerpt on IG.) Anyway, I love what you share here. Your four points are accurate, indeed. In fact, I discuss a few more in my next book, The Furnace of Affliction. God’s purposes are designed to draw us to Him and conform us into the image of His Son, Jesus. Thank you again for sharing your story. By the way, you can get a free chapter of my book on the July post on my site. Blessings to you and yours, sister.

    1. Diana

      October 3, 2019 at 4:09 pm

      I am so glad that you visited me today, brother Horace . I know your testimony of how the Good Lord has delivered you . I will be checking out your July post .

  11. Michele Morin

    October 4, 2019 at 7:25 am

    Leprosy is such a powerful image of what happens in our hearts if we refuse to feel our pain. Dr. Paul Brand and Philip Yancey collaborated on a book that also illustrates this truth!

  12. Valerie Riese

    October 5, 2019 at 8:19 am

    My doctor once told me that pain is your body’s way of telling me that something is wrong so don’t ignore it. But I’ve never thought of it from a soul standpoint. What a beautiful reminder you’ve given us that heartache is our soul’s way of telling us to run to the Great Physician. Thanks so much for linking up with Grace and Truth this week!

  13. Colleen Swindoll-Thompson

    October 7, 2019 at 10:36 am

    “Pain has an expiration date”… such a good thing to remember!

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